Dear beloved brother and sister,

Are you, dear brother, seeking a Godly wife with traits described and commanded in the Word of God? This is the normal Christian life for a woman of God. Do not seek nor accept a disrespectful, dishonorable, abusive, rebellious, unholy woman that blasphemes the word of God (Titus 2.5).

The first task for you, dear brother, is to seek God with all your heart each and every day and allow Him to mold you into His diamond. The Lord will not waste a woman of excellence, another diamond He has crafted over the years with the diligent Refiners’ fire, on a lump of coal! A lump of coal will only attract another lump of coal. This is certainly true also for your existing wife if she truly wishes to be godly for Jesus Christ, even if currently she is a lump of coal!

Are you, dear sister, displaying these traits of a Godly wife? If not, beg and beseech the Father that the Holy Spirit of Jesus Christ will make you this woman quickly, a diamond for your future or existing husband! This is the normal Christian life for a woman of God.

Some of us are already married to a disrespectful and abusive wife. What then? We’ll tackle that later on in this piece. [Read more…]