Dear brother,
We here at Walk Worthy are so very sorry and saddened that you are married to a Christian feminist. It is epidemic, and furthermore, they control the western church of Jesus Christ. It is a shame and embarrassment to God the Father and His holy Son. And this condition is eternally destructive to any person who practices this sin.
A definition is required at this point.
Christian feminist – any self-professing church goer, female or male, that believes and/or in reality acts like the husband should submit to the wife in everything whenever the wife disagrees with the husband’s life, requests, or demands while falsely claiming Christ laid down His life for His church in these same ways, thus failing to practice 1 Peter 3, Titus 2, and Ephesians 5, and blaspheming God.
The pagans also, primarily women, have swallowed hook, line, and sinker the New World Order mandate to destroy normal family life by the aggressive promotion of pagan feminism. This definition, in our opinion, is also in order.
Pagan feminist – anyone who believes the “theory” of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes, but in actuality promotes the superiority of women and degradation of men leading to the destruction of God ordained masculine and feminine roles.
In practice, there is very little difference between a Christian feminist and a pagan feminist. The results are almost identical. Both are a stench in the nostrils of God.
The Son of God always submits
The Son always…repeat…always submits to the Father in everything (John 8.29; 1 Cor. 11.3; 1 Cor. 15.28) so the Father may be all in all. That gracious obedience is the reason we, dear ones, boast of our place in Christ because of His perfect submission and bloody sacrifice.
Jesus Christ is a model for the Christian wife. Let the man be a man, wife. Man, be a man…the apostle Paul commanded the carnal Corinthians to “act like men (1 Cor. 16.13).”
The plain fact of the matter is that 95%+ of husbands in the west can be “won without a word (1 Peter 3).” Do you hear that, dear wife? Why are you disobeying Christ in this? What would your husband tell me about this in your life if he knew there would be zero retribution for the truth of how you are acting most of the time? Only 1-3% of husbands are beyond being won in this way, being consistently abusive is some fashion.
Christian wives who are blaspheming the Name of God
Here’s how Christian feminism usually plays out. The husband requests, demands, pleads with his wife to do something legal, moral, and non-abusive in his opinion. Or the husband wants his wife to stop all her contentious requests-demands-sniping of him to do something that he does not want to do.
She will not do it. She is rebelliously disrespectful. It is a heinous sin to her Lord. Jesus is tracking all of this sin for her judgment (2 Cor. 5-10-11). He is angry at her. He hopes she will repent and obey.
1 Samuel 15:22-23 Samuel said, “Has the lord as much delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices as in obeying the voice of the lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed (give serious attention) than the fat of rams.
“For rebellion is as the sin of divination (witchcraft), and insubordination is as iniquity and idolatry. Because you have rejected the word of the lord, he has also rejected you from being king.”
It is blaspheming the name of her Lord.
Titus 2:4-5 …so that they (older women) may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored (blasphemed, slandered).
She then falsely claims a) God told her not to do what her husband wants, and/or b) she is a Christian too, has her own life and independence so it’s up to her, and/or c) she’s being “abused.”
In these cases the husband wants her to commit to this, but the wife omits. It takes at least two to commit to something. Guess who submits to who is these cases?
All sinners go to the lake of fire – especially those who hide out in a church
No one can practice any sin and inherit the kingdom of God. No one. If those who do this say they love God, they are liars and are deceived.
Luke 6:46 “Why do you call Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say?…”
1 John 1:6 If we say that we have fellowship with Him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth…
1 John 2:3-5 By this we know that we have come to know Him, if we keep His commandments. The one who says, “I have come to know Him,” and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him; but whoever keeps His word, in him the love of God has truly been perfected. By this we know that we are in Him…
Revelation 21:7-8 “He who overcomes will inherit these things, and I will be his God and he will be My son. But for the cowardly and unbelieving and abominable and murderers and immoral persons and sorcerers and idolaters and all liars, their part will be in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.”
This is a major trust problem with God first and foremost, and then with her husband. Even if the husband is not a Christian, Michael Pearl declares “no man has ever crawled out from his wife’s criticism to be a better man, no matter how justified her condemnation”…or any woman for that matter.
These things almost always gets measurably worse, not better. God needs a willing and obedient heart, like His Son, to work His wonderful miracles in a marriage.
Yes, we do know your husband
But, the wife protests, you don’t know my husband!
I don’t need to, ma’am. We’ve seen hundreds and hundreds of cases. If he is the 1-3% serial and serious abuser, then take him to church discipline, to the law, and/or separate for a time. Perhaps divorce will be in order eventually. Remember God divorced Israel and remarried. Seek the husband’s repentance through others, not yourself, dear wife.
But if not…if he’s a regular guy like most of the 95%+, you just need to obey Christ, and your husband too, and do what your husbands says. Without making him pay for it.
Both Debi Pearl, a fruitful Christian wife, and Laura Doyle, a fruitful pragmatic pagan wife, have very good marriages. Debi’s excellent book is here. Laura, an unbeliever but with a thriving business in training wives who will actually listen, has her best book here.
A man, and even a husband, can be a Christian feminist if he continues and willingly submits to the wife in things she refuses to do. Instead, the husband must be calling her to account for her abuse of him. He must fight for his God given supremacy if need be. As Jesus Christ actively loves His church body through rebuke and discipline of sin, we husbands are the leaders in washing our wives by the Word.
Let us once again review the Christian feminist definition.
Christian feminist – any self-professing church goer, female or male, that believes and/or in reality acts like the husband should submit to the wife in everything whenever the wife disagrees with the husband’s life, requests or demands while falsely claiming Christ laid down His life for His church in these same ways, thus failing to practice 1 Peter 3, Titus 2, and Ephesians 5, and blaspheming God.
Watch carefully in the average church meeting, gathering, store, etc, how the women in general have trained the men to submit to them in everything they disagree with. Often it is subtle but it is there: most men subscribe to the phrase “if momma’s not happy, no one’s happy.” The exceptions to this are rare, very rare. At this time, if my grown daughter was saved, there is no Christian woman in the west, save my wife, I would absolutely trust to disciple her. Not one. How very sad…and disturbing.
These are just some of the things you will hear from the Christian feminist: “I have my rights…I can be independent…we need to submit to each other…we don’t want to change each other…”
The Word of God is crystal clear on this point
The Word of God speaks volumes of truth to this. It speaks to the wife first…always…due to her 400% more influence.
The husband is her head, like the Father to Christ (1 Cor. 11.3). The woman is the glory of man (1 Cor. 11.7), not vice versa. Woman was created for the man’s sake (1 Cor. 11.9). Therefore, the woman has the man’s authority over her to show the spirit world holy biblical order (1 Cor. 11.10). The woman is not independent (1 Cor. 11.11).
The wife is to submit to her husband in everything legal, moral, and non-abusive like the real body, His real church, does to Christ (Eph. 5.22-24; Col 3.18). The wife is to be subject to her husband in everything so the Word of Christ is not blasphemed (Titus 2.5), meaning to slander and abuse the holy Name of God.
Dear lady…or man…if you chafe at these clear commands, repent of your heinous sin and ask to be delivered from the demonic snare in which you find yourself. Do not abuse your husband any longer by your rebellion. Husband, do not allow your wife to abuse you. Teach your children and grandchildren the holy ways of God. Much marital sexual dysfunction is also the result of this abuse.
1 Samuel 15:23 “For rebellion is as the sin of divination (witchcraft), and insubordination is as iniquity and idolatry…”
Become a real Christian…not a Christian feminist. Follow Jesus Christ…not the world. Friendship with the world is hatred toward God (James 4.4).
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See other helpful posts on biblical submission here.
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See Dr. Marie Robinson’s classic chapter on the war between men and women here.
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Henry Makow has excellent articles on the New World Order strategy of feminism to denigrate the stated order of family life, and the proper role of the genders. He is not a believer but much of what he says bears truth.
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Your friend and brother in fighting the good fight,
Marc
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Marc White, Director, Walk Worthy Ministries, www.WalkWorthy.org
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